Hello everyone, we are pleased to present our second exclusive interview with one of our users, Piti.Piti is a sex worker based in Geneva, and we had the privilege to discuss with her about her background, her experience and her vision of the profession.At <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en">La Compagnie</a>, we value diversity and inclusion, and we are delighted to be able to give voice to someone who represents a community that is often marginalised and stigmatised. We hope that this interview will raise awareness of the reality of transgender sex workers and break down the stereotypes and prejudices that surround them.We thank Piti for her generosity and sincerity throughout this interview, and we hope you enjoy this inspiring and enlightening conversation as much as we do.

An Interview with Piti 

I started at the age of 16, initially out of obligation to survive. I was alone at the time, squatting with a small group of friends, rejected by my parents, my family and society because of my trans-identity.I immediately loved this job not only for the pleasure of sex but also for all the exchanges with the clients without any mask or lies.

So, tell us your story. How did you get started in the sex industry ? And how did your journey evolve ?

Oooooh it's not the same at all. Back then there was no internet and more freedom of speech. There were a lot of clients and money was relatively easy. We worked less time and partied much more.The type of performance has also changed a lot because the culture of sexual practices has changed a lot in recent years with sites like YouPorn.

How has prostitution evolved since you started ?

Of course I follow LaCompagnie on Insta. I also follow Swiss TDS associations such as Aspasie, ProCore and Xenia. As a former Lyonnaise I follow Cabiria.I also take the opportunity to talk about my podcast <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3g983fRaWchDxEcqCqHKnL">"Les jeudis du boulevard" </a>that you can find on Spotify and Deezer, which I co-host with my friend Judith.

Are there people in the industry that you find useful or interesting to follow on social media ?

The podcast is called "Les Jeudis du boulevard". It is available on Spotify and Deezer.The world of prostitution is unknown to the general public. I am convinced that it's necessary to communicate, to explain, to answer the questions that people ask so that we are better considered in this society. The podcast seems to me, to be a good idea to spread our word more widely and make everyone understand who we are.

Can you tell us more about your podcast ? 

Everyone in my family, friends, relatives and neighbours knows my job and I am proud to do it. Everything is much simpler and no one can blackmail me and put me under any pressure.I was "lucky" not to have a family that loves me and that I could have disappointed or shocked by this type of announcement. So everything has been easy for me on this point. I live it perfectly well and I'm surprised how natural it becomes and a non issue for my relatives. For the others, I have learned to forget their looks and their hatred and to live my life.The concern is mainly in my love life. My job tends to attract men who just want to 'do a hooker' or scare others away before they even know me. This has caused me many setbacks and pots of ice cream in front of Netflix ;-)

How did you decide to work with your face ? And how do you feel about it ?

As a sex worker in Switzerland, there is of course the maintenance of the current legislation, which is a battle we have to continue to lead because nothing is ever won.But beyond this legislation, there is of course our integration into society and our protection as citizens. We suffer unacceptable and unbearable discrimination in almost every aspect of our lives. I can mention the right to accommodation, access to the banking world, insurance, health care...Finally, and this is the most important, the population has a lot of prejudices about us, which leads to rejection and hate. Making our world known and the woman behind the professional is a major challenge if we want the population to help us.The client also suffers all this violence from society if he dares to say that he uses our services. I understand that it is difficult for him to admit it and to give the true climate and context of these services. The liberalisation of his word would obviously help us a lot.Finally, for the countries around us, it is urgent to silence the abolitionists who are pushing us into the arms of MAC and to regulate the profession in order to make us free, independent and to put an end to the trafficking that we see too often in these countries.

As sex workers, we face many challenges. What issues are important to you, and how do you think clients can help sex workers and become better allies ?

I'm a great romantic so it would be a long meeting (4-5 hours or all night) with a client who has a fantasy that has never been fulfilled. We would take the time to build up his desire and I would be able to read the pleasure in his eyes. I will take as much pleasure as he does in the sexual act. We would then take the time to discuss subjects he would be passionate about so that he could pass on this passion to me. We would then indulge another of his sexual fantasies. We would take the time to build up his desire ... again and again

What would your dream meeting look like ? 

<ul><li>Geneva for a start. I love my city. A bit like the lake Léman, it appears flat and uninteresting from the outside, but underneath this appearance, there is an extraordinary life. I don't forget either that it is the city that welcomed me, the lost Lyonnaise, prostitute and transgender, and that made me a proud and strong citizen.</li><li>Marbella. There is no end to the partying, the weather is good, the food is good and the Andalusians are full of joy.</li><li>Saint Louis de la Reunion. It's a small town with a lot of charm, wedged between a soft, warm and welcoming sea and a lush, protected and natural volcanic peak.</li></ul>

What are the three best cities you've been to, and why ?

I smoke a cigarette and take a deep breath to get the adrenaline out of the service. If possible, I take a short shower, reapply my make-up. Then I put the money in a safe place.

Do you have a ritual for taking care of yourself after a client ? If so, can you share it with us ?

I run at least once a day. I do very long distance trails (100 km and more)I love shopping and am a fashion victim.I love to learn and am very curious. I dig into subjects that clients have told me about and that I don't know about.Finally, and perhaps most surprisingly, I read everything I can about medieval history. If I hadn't liked this profession so much, I would have finished my studies in this field.

What are your hobbies and interests outside of work ?

I try to keep my two lives separate. I don't entertain at home but in a flat that I rent for the occasion. My clothes and even my make-up are different.I always take a weekend day (Monday). I take time to do my trail running (4 to 5 days) and to spend time with my friends and family when they can come to Geneva.I also take a week's holiday at the beginning of the year and two or three weeks in the summer.In total, I work about 300 days a year .... Anyway, I am a freelancer.My favourite restaurant :&nbsp;A bouchon Lyonnais&nbsp;My favourite smell :&nbsp; The smell of melted chocolate&nbsp;My favourite sextoy :&nbsp;A cute anal plug in the shape of a rabbit&nbsp;If you want to buy me a drink you can buy me :&nbsp;A Gin Fizz&nbsp;The craziest thing I've ever done in my life : I hesitate between running away from the shelter to live my life as a woman when I was only 16 and had no money or finishing the Diagonale de fous, a 165 km and 10,000 m race taking place in Reunion Island in just under 37 hours.&nbsp;

How do you manage your work time with your personal life ? Do you take weekends off, regular holidays ... ?

Go to her profile on La Compagnie : <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en/profile/2d6b37e5-509e-440c-a91b-220ce3f60860">I discover Piti's profile !</a>

Would you like to meet the Geneva-based escort Piti ?

Interview with Piti #2 

Hello and welcome to our <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en/blog">blog</a> ! Today we are pleased to introduce our new feature : exclusive interviews with our users. We are convinced that their stories are worth sharing and listening to.At <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en">La Compagnie</a>, we believe that everyone, regardless of their profession, deserves to be heard and respected. This is why we decided to give a voice to Gabriella, one of our users. Gabriella kindly agreed to answer our questions and share her experience with us.In this first conversation, you will discover a passionate and inspiring person, who tells us about her journey, her successes and her challenges. We hope you enjoy this interview and get a taste of the richness of our users.So sit back, relax and let yourself be carried away by this wonderful conversation with Gabriella.

An interview with the escort Gabriella

So how did I get started in this business. Through a heartbreak that opened my eyes to who I really was and what I wanted to do for a long, long time. That is to say, to become an escort / companion / courtesan.I have a very high libido and a very broad vision of sexuality since I can remember.&nbsp;I like to share my sexual experience and desire for sex with other people, to discover and experience new things.But beyond sex, because there is more to it than that, I like to share good moments with someone, to go exploring, to discover the world, museums, exhibitions, to try incredible and unique experiences (like skydiving, feeding elephants, swimming with whales etc). I like and appreciate open-minded, cultured and interesting people, who enjoy intellectual as well as physical connections.Until today my career path is going well, I'm learning every day, I'm improving personally and professionally. I have met some great people and I hope to meet more.

So tell us your story. How did you get started in the sex industry? And how has your journey been so far ?

At the moment I'm re-reading a book I'd already read, "Le bal des folles" (a book offered by a client). In terms of programmes, testimonial programmes, such as the one hosted by Faustine Bollaert on France 2 "Ça commence aujourd'hui".

Is there a book, a blog, a programme, a podcast or a film that you are passionate about at the moment ?

I like all aspects of it, the excitement of meeting a new person, the mystery of how the person will be intellectually and physically. I like the human side that this job brings, being able to give back the taste of life to some people, to give back the desire to please, to give back confidence to people etc …

What are the aspects of your job as an escort that you appreciate the most ?

I think that it doesn't matter what society, yesterday, today or tomorrow. Sex work is and will always be badly perceived. This is a subject I could talk about for hours.

According to you, how are sex workers perceived in today's society ?

Otherwise I like to go out to clubs, go to the opera, play sports a lot.In my "private life" I really enjoy taking care of animals and reupholstering furniture.

Outside of work, what are your hobbies and interests ?

Then I really like to go out clubbing, dancing is my best way to unwind. I also like to do sport, fitness and running are both good ways to clear my head.

How do you like to relax and recharge your batteries after a long week of work ?

It's as simple as taking the time to read my website (laughs). It would save the client, me and my assistant a lot of time and energy. My site is very easy, clear and all the necessary information is there. A <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.gabriellaangloma.com/en/faq-tips/">FAQ</a> is available to answer essential questions. And for those who wish, I have a <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.gabriellaangloma.com/blog/">blog</a>, where I write personal or very interesting things that can give the client an idea of my personality and the service I offer.

What do you think clients could do to make the appointment with an escort as smooth as possible ?

I really like museums and libraries 😉. The Louvre I haven't had time to visit everything yet.&nbsp;

What is your favourite place to visit and what do you like to do there ?

Trust yourself, always respect yourself, know your value and your limits. Surround yourself with trustworthy people (close to you) and if you have the chance, and I hope you do, meet good and caring TDS. Unfortunately it is a very "difficult" environment to make trusted friends but the most important thing is to think about yourself.

What are your most important tips for a beginning sex worker ?

I listen to everything at the moment, I don't have a favourite track. But the track I play over and over again and never get tired of is Ride by Lana Del Rey 😍. My ideal date would be :&nbsp;The ideal date is when the person is relaxed, comfortable and confident. There is no magic formula.. My favourite smell :&nbsp;The smell of my vagina 🤣&nbsp;. My favourite sextoy:&nbsp; I don't have a favourite sextoy . vaginal or anal, I enjoy them all because they all provide pleasure in their own different way.&nbsp;. If you want to buy me a drink you can buy me :&nbsp;A pornstar martini 🍸 but you can also surprise me.. The craziest thing I've ever done in my life: On the personal side, for me it's not crazy but for 90% of people it would be; going to a libertine club and being watched by people in the middle of sexual debates. On the professional side, giving a golden shower to a client. The first time is weird, but it soon becomes exciting and pleasant.

What kind of music are you listening to at the moment ?

Go to her profile La Compagnie!<a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en/profile/913422c0-2069-4b7d-89a6-e14b15c3c970">Gabriella's profile on La Compagnie </a>Gabriella also invites you to visit her website:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.gabriellaangloma.com/en/">https://www.gabriellaangloma.com/en/</a>

Want to meet the Geneva escort Gabriella ?

Interview with Gabriella #1

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Code of Conduct

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Use of our platforms

Everyone has the right to be treated with respect and we expect all users of our platforms to treat each other with respect and courtesy. Systemic racism is a major contributor to the oppression of sex workers and we have a zero tolerance policy for this behaviour. Bullying, harassment, threatening behaviour and discriminatory behaviour are not welcome and are actively moderated.Any discriminatory statements used on our platforms will be removed. We understand that some of our users need to screen the people they interact with for legitimate personal reasons, but we will not allow the use of discriminatory language. We want to be part of the change to de-stigmatise sex work and this means that we, as a community, must not stigmatise others.We strongly support all our users and their ability to present themselves in the way that is right for them. Derogatory language against any group or individual will not be tolerated on our platforms.

Treat everyone with respect

Respect for users also extends to our support team, some of whom are also sex workers. We understand that it can be frustrating when things don't work properly, but please remember that we are people too and want to help you. We will not tolerate abusive language or actions towards our team and we will not respond to abusive requests.If you continue to send abusive messages, we will delete your account from the platform.The user is prohibited from taking any action that may damage the reputation of the website, La Compagnie or the personalities of its managers, employees and partners through the platform but also in a broader context.

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We provide platforms for the adult industry, which means that we welcome adult content. We believe it is important to allow our users to express themselves appropriately. We therefore allow the sharing of media containing nudity, provided that the media is not explicit and that it represents the person sharing it.We do not explicitly allow certain types of content and sharing anything of this type will result in your access to our platforms or services being restricted or blocked.Rules and guidance for your media content :<ul><li>You must appear in photos.</li><li>It is not possible to have someone other than you in the photos or to have someone with you</li><li>No close-ups of private parts</li><li>There must be only one picture per image. Collages are not allowed</li><li>Photos containing information such as a web link, phone number, etc. are not allowed either</li><li>No explicit content, pornography, action</li><li>No off-topic, degrading, violent or illegal content</li></ul>We advise you to choose your content carefully. It should be of good quality, suggestive, sensual and not obscene.If you do not have quality content, please email us at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:info@lacompagnie.ch">info@lacompagnie.ch</a> so that we can provide you with a list of safe photographers. This means that they offer reasonable rates and do not demand sexual consideration for their work.We have no tolerance for stolen content. If we find that you are using content that is not your property, your profile will be suspended and/or permanently banned.

Media content

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Malicious use of our platforms

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Security

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Code of Conduct 

First of all, you should know that it was conceived by Zoé Blanc-Scuderi, sexologist, ally of the Sex Workers and working for the associations Fleur de pavé and Aspasie ; and Yumie Volupté, sex worker and activist.Le Putain de Manuel is the alliance of their respective skills : Zoé, as a therapist, brought the fact of asking yourself some precise but simple questions to bring out a personal reflection while taking care of yourself.Yumie, as a concerned person, brought in some concepts specific to sex work and the importance of empowerment.

Putain de Manuel ? But what is it ?

Le Putain de Manuel is personal development manual for sex workers, designed as a holiday book.We explain :It is built in 9 chapters (very short, don't worry !) each with a few explanatory points on the subject and questions to encourage reflection. The questions are simple, but they can lead to deep reflection.The aim of these questions is to help sex workers think about their work and their identity, to reflect on how they do it, what sex work brings them and what they bring to the world through their work.It is conceived "like a holiday book" because the design is cute, simple, with small boxes to answer each question, in a desire to have a pleasant form that also allows the reflection on sex work to be de-dramatised.Because what we can see, read or hear about sex work is often gloomy, dramatic, dark, angry, etc. However, as people concerned and allies, we wanted to bring joy back into our lives, and for us this meant creating a playful manual.Although it is aimed at sex workers, it is not just for them and is accessible to everyone. Whether you want to understand this work from the inside, project yourself into a sex worker's life, or draw parallels between your life and those of sex workers, this manual may be of interest to you.(Please note: it is designed for female sex workers* because sex work is predominantly female, they are the ones who suffer the most from stigmatisation, and they are also the ones who have the least possibilities to think about their identities. This manual is not designed for queer tds or men in the sense that it does not address the issues that people who do not identify as women* may face, but this does not prevent it from being usable by all.)The different chapters of the Putain de Manuel, corresponding to different aspects of our jobs and lives, are as follows:You :<ul><li> The Whore-Self</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Your skills</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Your sexuality</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Your daily life</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Your health</li></ul>The Others and Us :<ul><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Your clients</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Friendship and community</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; Love</li><li>&nbsp; &nbsp; The world and whores</li></ul>In summary, if you are interested by Le Putain de Manuel, you can contact Yumie Volupté by e-mail at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:yumievolupte@hotmail.fr">yumievolupte@hotmail.fr</a>. And if you're a sex worker and you've completed the manual, feel free to send your comments or share your answers at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:putopia@weareclosetoyou.fr">putopia@weareclosetoyou.fr</a>.

Here, Yumie explains what it's all about

Ladies, if you're looking for a holiday booklet that's both fun and deep, " Le Putain de Manuel" is a must-read. This 20-page booklet addresses relevant and important issues for sex workers, inviting them to reflect on their professional and personal lives.The questions asked in this holiday booklet range from describing your ideal escort to how work has changed your sex life. By answering these questions, sex workers can focus on themselves, their identity and role as an escort, while critically examining their personal lives.Most interestingly, " Le Putain de Manuel" addresses these issues in a positive way, inviting sex workers to reflect on their strengths and weaknesses, their aspirations and needs, without judgement or stigma. It is a good read to become aware of one's own needs and to focus on one's mental well-being.Overall, " Le Putain de Manuel" is a very well produced book, which allows for deep and constructive reflection on sex work and personal life. We highly recommend this book to all sex workers who wish to deepen their personal reflection, improve their professional and personal lives and strengthen their mental well-being.

La Compagnie's Words 

Le Putain de Manuel - BOOK 

With the rise of telecommuting, organizing remote appointments has become a necessity for many independent professionals. <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendly.com">Calendly</a> is an online appointment scheduling tool that makes this task easier by allowing you to schedule appointments in just a few clicks. In this article, we provide you with a detailed guide on how to use <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendly.com">Calendly</a>, from registration to customizing settings for maximum efficiency.

Setting up your Calendly profile

The first step to using Calendly is to create an account. You can sign up on the Calendly website using your email address or your Google or Microsoft account. Once registered, you can access the Calendly interface.

Registration

To customize your booking page, go to your account settings by clicking on "account" at the top right of the screen, then on "account settings&nbsp;».Under "profile," you can add a profile picture, change your name, and add a welcome message for your clients.You can also customize the URL of your Calendly link to make it easier to share.

Customizing the booking page

By clicking on "account," you can also access "calendar connection."This feature allows you to connect your personal calendar to Calendly so that the tool can know when you are available and automatically update your calendar after each scheduled appointment. You can connect a Google, Microsoft, or iCloud calendar in just a few clicks.

Connecting to your calendar

To customize the types of appointments you offer, click on "new event type" from the Calendly homepage. We recommend creating an event type for each appointment duration you offer.Examples :<ul><li>One-hour meeting</li><li>Delicious lunch with dessert for 4 hours</li><li>2-hour Outcall</li><li>30-minute Skype video</li></ul>Regarding the location, you can provide your precise address, or only the name of the neighborhood where you will receive your client. In the case of an appointment where you travel, you can choose to let the client specify the location of the meeting.The event description corresponds to a brief summary of the appointment you offer. Remember that the more precise you are, the more the client will know what to expect during your meeting.In the "When can people book this event" section, this is where you refine your schedule.You can, among other things:<ul><li>Define the duration of the proposed appointment</li><li>Predefine time for you before and/or after the appointment</li><li>Choose a minimum amount of time before the appointment can be booked, for example: The appointment can only be booked 3 hours, 48 hours, or even a week in advance.</li><li>By checking the "Secret Event" box, only clients to whom you communicate the link can make an appointment. This way, you only offer your calendar to your safe and regular clients.</li></ul>You can also add custom questions to collect additional information about your clients when booking an appointment.For example, you can ask for :<ul><li>Name and/or first name</li><li>Email address</li><li>Phone number</li><li>Any questions that seem necessary (What are your expectations for our appointment?, etc...)</li></ul>

Customizing event types

Once your event is created, you can click on "view live page" to see what your clients will see when they make an appointment with you.

Viewing the booking page

By opting for the paid version of Calendly, you can also use the integrated payment feature to collect online payments, whether it's for a deposit or for the total amount of the service, via Stripe or Paypal.

Payment feature

In summary, Calendly is a powerful and easy-to-use online appointment scheduling tool. By setting up your parameters correctly, you can change your lifestyle and work mode by 100%.At <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en">La Compagnie</a>, we believe that all sex workers deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. That's why we've implemented tools that allow them to focus on both their work and personal lives with peace of mind.By offering the option to add a Calendly calendar to their profile for free, we give them the opportunity to manage their time more effectively, allowing them to take the time to live a more fulfilling and balanced life.By offering this option for free, we aim to demonstrate our commitment to helping our users save time and maximize their earnings, while allowing them to maintain their autonomy and independence. We are proud to offer this possibility to our users as it shows our commitment to their well-being and professionalism.By choosing <a target="_self" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.lacompagnie.ch/en">La Compagnie</a>, you join a community that values human beings and is committed to giving escorts the autonomy and respect they deserve.

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We help you to create your Calendly Profile ! 

Sexual practices are an important part of the escort profession, but it is also essential to protect oneself against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and HIV. In this article, we will review sexual practices that carry risks of STIs and HIV, and explain the definitions and symptoms of some common STIs.First, it is important to understand what an STI is. An STI is an infection transmitted through sexual contact, including vaginal, anal, and oral sex, as well as genital skin-to-skin contact. Some STIs, such as HIV, can only be transmitted through bodily fluids such as blood, semen, and vaginal fluid, while others can also be transmitted through skin contact.HIV is a virus that attacks the immune system, making the infected person more vulnerable to infections. HIV is transmitted through contact with the blood, semen, pre-seminal fluid, vaginal fluid, and breast milk of an infected person. Symptoms of HIV infection can vary from person to person and may include fever, muscle and joint pain, headaches, a rash, and swollen lymph nodes.

Sexual Practices 

Here is a list of sexual practices that carry no risks of STIs :<ul><li>Vaginal intercourse with a condom</li><li>Anal intercourse with a condom</li><li>Blowjob with a condom</li><li>Rimming and/or cunnilingus with a dental dam</li></ul>The following sexual practices carry a risk of STIs but no risk related to HIV :<ul><li>Unprotected blowjob</li><li>Rimming and/or cunnilingus without a dental dam</li><li>Passive blowjob and cunnilingus without protection</li></ul>The following sexual practices carry a risk of both HIV and STIs:<ul><li>Unprotected vaginal intercourse</li><li>Unprotected anal intercourse</li><li>Active cunnilingus during menstruation</li><li>Sex toy exchange without a condom or disinfection</li></ul>

Sexual Practices and Risks 

Now, let's review some of the most common STIs and their symptoms :<ul><li>HIV : As mentioned earlier, HIV attacks the immune system and can lead to opportunistic infections such as pneumonia, tuberculosis, and certain types of cancer. Early symptoms of HIV may include fever, muscle and joint pain, a rash, and swollen lymph nodes. However, many people do not experience any symptoms for years.</li><li>Hepatitis B :&nbsp; Hepatitis B is a viral infection that attacks the liver. Symptoms may include fever, fatigue, nausea and vomiting, abdominal pain, and jaundice.</li><li>Hepatitis C : Hepatitis C is also a viral infection that attacks the liver. Symptoms may include fatigue, nausea and vomiting, abdominal pain, fever, and dark urine. However, most people infected with hepatitis C do not experience any symptoms.</li><li>Syphilis : Syphilis is a bacterial infection that can cause skin lesions, joint pain, fever, and swollen lymph nodes. If left untreated, syphilis can cause damage to the brain, heart, and other organs.</li><li>Gonorrhea : Gonorrhea is a bacterial infection that can cause pain and abnormal discharge in both men and women. In women, gonorrhea can also cause abdominal pain, bleeding between periods, and pain during sex. In men, gonorrhea can cause pain and discharge from the penis.</li><li>Chlamydia : Chlamydia is a bacterial infection that can cause abnormal discharge and pain in both men and women. In women, chlamydia can also cause bleeding between periods and pain during sex. In men, chlamydia can cause pain and discharge from the penis.</li><li>Mycoplasma : Mycoplasma is a bacterial infection that can cause pain and discharge in both men and women. Symptoms in women may also include bleeding between periods and pain during sex.</li><li>Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV) : LGV is a bacterial infection that can cause pain and swollen lymph nodes in the genital area. If left untreated, LGV can damage the lymphatic tissue and cause serious complications.</li><li>Trichomoniasis: Trichomoniasis is a parasitic infection that can cause discharge and itching in both men and women. In women, it can also cause pain during sexual intercourse and inflammation of the vagina.</li><li>Human Papillomavirus (HPV) : HPV is a common viral infection that can cause genital warts. In some cases, HPV can also cause cervical cancer in women.</li><li>Herpes : The herpes virus can cause painful lesions on the genitals, mouth, and other parts of the body. Symptoms may include itching, burning, and pain.</li><li>Candidiasis : Candidiasis is a common fungal infection that can cause itching and discharge in both men and women.</li><li>Hepatitis A : Hepatitis A is mainly transmitted through oral-fecal route. Symptoms include nausea, fatigue, jaundice, and abdominal pain. There is an effective vaccine to prevent infection.</li><li>Giardiasis and Amoebiasis : These two infections are caused by parasites that are mainly transmitted through consumption of contaminated water or contact with fecal matter. Symptoms include abdominal pain, diarrhea, and nausea.</li><li>Brachyspira : This bacterial infection is mainly transmitted through sexual contact and can cause abdominal pain and diarrhea.</li></ul>It is important to note that many STIs may not have any symptoms, which is why it is recommended to get tested regularly if you are sexually active, even if you do not have symptoms. Testing also helps to detect STIs at an early stage, making treatment easier.In conclusion, it is essential to take precautions during sexual activity to reduce the risk of STIs. Using a condom is one of the most effective measures to protect yourself, but it is also important to get tested regularly. If you experience symptoms, it is important to consult a healthcare professional to receive appropriate treatment.Do not hesitate to mention your status as a sex worker to medical staff if you deem it necessary, as specific advice and care can be provided to you.

Sexually Transmitted Infections and their Symptoms 

The sex industry has always used abbreviations to protect itself. Workers have created a specific slang language to communicate with each other and with their clients. As a player in this industry, we understand the crucial importance of communication in any intimate encounter. It is important that the terms used to describe oneself and the services are understandable to all. Many people do not have as much knowledge of these terms as we professionals do. That is why we strive to make the communication between the client and the worker as smooth as possible. It is imperative for us that our clients have a complete understanding of the services we offer. To facilitate this, we have developed a comprehensive glossary of terms that we hope will lead to a better understanding between clients and workers.

Escorts Glossary

<ul><li>Abolitionist - This is often a 'feminist' who believes that prostitution is inherently exploitative, violent and slavery-like. These people are often described as anti-sex, prohibitionist and/or anti-sex worker rights feminists, and focus on the abolition of sex work rather than the promotion of human rights and sex worker labour.</li><li>Anal play - Any sexual play with the anus, including toys or anal sex.</li><li>Anal sex - Penetration of the anus</li><li>ATM - Ass To Mouth</li><li>BJ - Blow Job</li><li>BBW - Big Beautiful Woman</li><li>BLS - Balls Lick and Suck</li><li>B &amp; D - Bondage and Discipline</li><li>BDSM - Body Domination and Sadomasochism</li><li>Bondage - Restraining or tying up a partner</li><li>CBT - Cock and Ball Torture</li><li>CIM - Cum in Mouth</li><li>CIMWS - Cum In Mouth With Swallow</li><li>Cisgender (Cis) - A description of a person who identifies with the gender assigned to them at birth.</li><li>CBJ - Covered Blow Job</li><li>COB - Cum on Body</li><li>COF - Cum on Face</li><li>Cougar - A mature woman who is usually looking for a younger man</li><li>Decriminalization - The act of removing the criminal classification of something. Sex workers around the world have been advocating for decades for the decriminalisation of sex work to reduce harm, violence and exploitation within and outside the community.</li><li>DFK - Deep French Kiss</li><li>Dirty talk - The use of foul language during sex.</li><li>DP - Double penetration</li><li>DDP - Double Digit Penetration, one finger in the vagina and one in the anus.</li><li>DT - Deep Throat</li><li>Doggy style - A sexual position in which one person penetrates the other from behind</li><li>Dominatrix - A female person who assumes the role of dominator during BDSM play.</li><li>Dominas - a Latin word meaning "Mistress".</li><li>Dom - A male person who takes on a dominant role during BDSM play</li><li>Erotic Worker - A generic term for different types of sex workers, including those who practice sugaring, stripping, camming, escorting, etc.</li><li>Facial - The act of cumming on someone's face.</li><li>Facesitting - The act of receiving sexual stimulation by sitting on someone's face.</li><li>FBSM - Sensual Whole Body Massage</li><li>FE - Female Ejaculation</li><li>Female/Male Presentation - A way of describing someone without using specifically gendered language.</li><li>Female - Typically describes a very feminine queer person presenting themselves.</li><li>Fire and Ice - Performing oral sex while going from something hot to something cold.</li><li>Fisting - Penetrating the anus or vagina with a fist.</li><li>FK - French Kissing</li><li>FS - Full Service, which means that a sex worker provides a full sexual experience, usually including penetrative sex.</li><li>FtM (F2M) - Female to Male, a description of the gender of a trans person.</li><li>GFE aka Girlfriend Experience - sex workers provide a girlfriend-like experience.</li><li>Genderfluid - The gender identity of people whose gender relationship changes from time to time.</li><li>Genderqueer - A gender identity outside the male/female binary.</li><li>GS or 'Golden Shower' - usually means watching someone urinate or having them urinate on someone.</li><li>Happy ending - typically a massage that ends with a hand job</li><li>HJ - Hand Job</li><li>Intersex - A term for a person who has an atypical biological sex.</li><li>Legalization - Often confused with decriminalization, legalization makes something legal provided it meets the required legal obligations.</li><li>LGBTIQA+ - Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Intersex Queer Asexual +.</li><li>MtF (M2F) - Male to Female, a description of the gender of a trans person.</li><li>MILF - Mother I'd Like to Fuck</li><li>MFF - Male Female Female usually in the context of a threesome</li><li>MMF - Male Female Female usually in the context of a threesome</li><li>Monogamy - The practice of having only one sexual partner</li><li>Mutual Masturbation - Two individuals masturbating together</li><li>MSOG - Multiple Shots on Goal, meaning that a sex worker is able to give his client multiple orgasms</li><li>Mx - The title of a non-binary person (as opposed to Mr or Mrs)</li><li>Natural bikini - Unshaven or substantial pubic hair</li><li>Non-monogamy - An intimate sexual/emotional relationship involving more than two people.</li><li>Non-binary - A spectrum of gender identities outside the male/female binary.</li><li>Open relationship - Also known as a non-exclusive relationship, is a form of non-monogamy</li><li>OF - Only Fans</li><li>Online Only - The provider only provides services via online media such as Only Fans and webcam sites.</li><li>Pansexual - A person attracted to all gender identities</li><li>PSE aka Porn Star Experience - usually a sexual experience inspired by mainstream pornography</li><li>Queer - Someone who is not strictly heterosexual</li><li>Role Play - People who engage in sexual activity while acting</li><li>Rimming - Satisfying someone's anus with the mouth.</li><li>Seggs - A term used for sex on social media platforms that have censored terms like sex</li><li>Snowballing - The act of passing semen from one person's mouth to another</li><li>Spanish wank - Rubbing the penis between two breasts</li><li>Spit roasting - giving oral sex to one person while being penetrated from behind by another person</li><li>Squirting - Female ejaculation during orgasm</li><li>Strap on - A dildo designed to be put on by one person.</li><li>Strip tease - An erotic dance involving the removal of clothing.</li><li>Sugaring (Sugar baby/Sugar daddy) - A relationship in which one party (often the man) financially supports the other party in exchange for companionship and often sexual intimacy.</li><li>SW - Sex worker</li><li>Ball Licking - Placing balls in one's mouth</li><li>Toy show - A show with toys for masturbation, i.e. dildos and vibrators.</li><li>Transgender - A description of the gender of a person who is undergoing or has completed a gender transition.</li><li>Trans- An umbrella term covering identities that transgress binary gender norms</li><li>Tromboning - A sexual act of performing oral sex on a person's anus while masturbating their penis</li><li>TTM - Testicular massage with the tongue</li><li>Water sports - Sexual acts that involve urine</li><li>Whorearchy - Whorearchy is an unfortunate class system within the sex industry that perpetuates lateral violence.</li><li>Whorephobia - Whorephobia is a form of violence directed at sex workers that aims to perpetuate stigma in order to control and police women's bodies.</li></ul>For more information on the terminology used in and around the sex industry, see<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.nswp.org/sites/nswp.org/files/StellaInfoSheetLanguageMatters.pdf">https://www.nswp.org/sites/nswp.org/files/StellaInfoSheetLanguageMatters.pdf</a>

Definition

Vocabulary of Sex Workers

As an independent escort, you know the importance of presenting yourself in the best possible way to attract more clients. With the advancement of technology, you can now use artificial intelligence to help you create a compelling and professional profile that stands out from the crowd. La Compagnie will show you how to use ChatGPT, an AI-powered language model, to optimize your profile and reach a wider audience.

Chat GPT 

<ol><li>Speed : Creating a well-written and comprehensive profile can take a lot of time and effort. With AI, you can get your profile done in a matter of minutes, allowing you to focus on your core business.</li></ol><ol start="2"><li>Accuracy : AI algorithms are designed to analyze data and provide accurate and relevant information. With ChatGPT, you can be sure that your profile will be free from errors and inaccuracies, making a positive impression on potential clients.</li></ol><ol start="3"><li>Personalization : ChatGPT can generate a personalized profile that reflects your unique skills, experience, and personality. This can help you stand out from other escorts and show clients why you are the best choice for their needs.</li></ol>

Advantages of using AI

<ol><li>Define your goals : Before you start creating your profile, it's important to define what you want to achieve. Do you want to target a specific client demographic ? Do you want to highlight your specific skills and experience ? Make a list of your goals so that you can ensure that your profile reflects them.</li></ol><ol start="2"><li>Gather your information : Collect all the information you want to include in your profile, such as your experience, specialties, and anything else you want to highlight.</li></ol><ol start="3"><li>Use ChatGPT : To use ChatGPT, you simply need to formulate your request by following these instructions :</li></ol><ul><li>Start by typing "Write my profile for as an independent escort" in the chat box.</li></ul><ul><li>Include the information you have gathered, such as your experience and specialties, in the request. For example, you can type «&nbsp;I am an escort girl, brunette with green eyes. I am tall and curvy. I like lace lingerie. I have a sweet character. My passion is travelling… etc &nbsp; »</li></ul><ul><li>Ask ChatGPT to generate a draft of your profile. For example, you can type "Can you generate a draft of my profile using the information I provided? "</li></ul><ul><li>Optimize your profile: Once you have a draft of your profile, you can optimize it further to make it more attractive to clients. Use keywords related to your industry, and make sure that your profile is easy to read and understand. For example you can type : «&nbsp;I like the beginning of the text but I would like to show that my character is softer. Also add that I receive my clients in a very feminine and cosy flat&nbsp;… »</li></ul><ul><li>Publish your profile: Once you are satisfied with your profile, you can publish it on your website, social media, or other platforms where you want to reach potential clients.</li></ul>By following these steps and using ChatGPT, you can create a professional and compelling profile that will help you reach a wider audience and attract more clients as an independent escort.&nbsp; (&nbsp;If ChatGPT telling you that he does not accept sexually oriented language or promote activity related to prostitution. That is why we advise you to change the key words and to speak for example about being an independent masseur )

Step-by-Step Guide

How to Optimize Your Profile with Artificial Intelligence

As a freelance sex worker, having an online presence and a convenient way for clients to book appointments is crucial to the success of your business. One of the best ways to do this is to offer an online calendar. By using the right platform, you can make the process even more convenient and efficient for you and your clients.An online calendar offers many benefits, including the ability for clients to schedule appointments in advance. This allows them to plan and book appointments at their convenience, rather than having to call or exchange multiple text messages. It also helps you manage your schedule more efficiently, reducing the likelihood of scheduling two appointments at the same time or forgetting appointments. In addition, it can help you manage your time efficiently, resulting in improved productivity and customer satisfaction.Another advantage of an online calendar is the ability to record your services and their duration. This allows you to keep track of the types of services you offer and their duration, which can be useful for planning your schedule and determining your rates. You can also link your personal calendar to Calendly or create one specifically for your business, which will help you manage your time and income more effectively.An online calendar also allows you to automatically schedule time between appointments, ensuring that you have enough time to rest and recharge between sessions. This is crucial for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. In addition, it offers the option of accepting last-minute appointments or limiting the number of appointments per day, which can help to increase bookings and manage your time more cost-effectively.Another useful feature of an online diary is the ability to set a maximum acceptable number of appointments per day. You can also create appointments that can only be booked by your regular customers via a special link, which can be useful for managing your schedule and ensuring customer satisfaction. In addition, it allows customers to enter their name and e-mail, with the possibility of adding a telephone number and any other requests. This way you have all the information you need about your customer and can contact them if necessary. You can also remind your client of the appointment, which can help reduce the likelihood of missed appointments and no-shows.In addition, you can cancel the appointment and the customer will be informed, which can help you to manage your schedule more efficiently. An online diary also allows you to connect your PayPal account and ask your client to pay a deposit or the full session before the appointment. This can save you and your clients time and reduce the risk of missed payments and appointments.

 All the advantages of offering your agenda online

When it comes to finding a website to host your online calendar, La Compagnie is the only website in Switzerland that allows freelancers to link their profile directly to their Calendly calendar for free. This means that you can easily synchronise your calendar with La Compagnie, and your customers can book appointments directly from your personal profile. This is a great advantage for freelancers, as it can help you promote your services to a wider audience and increase your bookings. By using La Compagnie's platform, you can enjoy the many benefits of an online calendar while being able to reach a wider customer base.In conclusion, offering an online calendar as a freelance escort can be extremely beneficial to both you and your clients. It allows for efficient planning, improves productivity and client satisfaction, and helps you manage your time and income effectively. La Compagnie's unique feature of linking your profile directly to your Calendly calendar free of charge is an added benefit that can help increase your bookings and reach a wide range of customers.So don't wait any longer and join us !

La Compagnie is your perfect tool

Submit your agenda online ! 

In many ways, this is understandable. The sex industry is often mysterious to outsiders - full of rules and customs that are not immediately obvious. If you want intimacy and think an escort might be the answer, it can be difficult to find practical information on how to arrange the experience you're hoping for.If you don't know what you are doing at the outset, many things can go wrong. You can miss out on meeting someone you really like because you didn't send the right details in your email or text message. Or you may blurt out something unnecessary during your meeting and end up having an embarrassing first experience. A difficult customer is not always invited back... so it's essential to know the right thing to do.How to start? Of course, you could just hope for the best... but I'll make it easy for you. Here's what you need to know to have a successful first date with an escort.

Here's a warning for you : many people see escorts, but few get it right the first time

The sex industry is full of potential clients who never follow through after contacting an escort. If you want your first booking request to be successful, you must distinguish yourself as a serious client.Often, when I reply to a client's e-mail or SMS, I answer their questions and check my diary to make sure I am available on the dates they have mentioned. But, after I send my reply... nothing. This waste of effort is very discouraging and makes me reluctant to talk to them if they contact me again in the future.That's why it's so important to engage before contacting a professional. Decide who you are interested in and when you would like to meet them. Make sure you have the necessary funds; asking for discounts never impresses! And most importantly, don't send that first message until you are sure of your choice of companion and are 100% sure you will show up on the day.Clients who request a session and do not respond may not get a second chance.

First, make sure you're committed

Communication, communication, communication. It's the cornerstone of all relationships, even professional ones... So make sure you send a well-written booking request.When you first contact your favourite escort, it is essential that you take the time to write a clear email or text message. If you are disorganised or difficult to understand, we may assume you are a time waster and never reply. Or we may spend a long time going back and forth trying to get the details we need; this consumes energy that is better saved for the session itself.Here's how to avoid this: be polite and professional. Include your name, the day and time you would like to meet, your mobile phone number and whether you are expecting an incall or outcall. It is not necessary to be sexually explicit. By giving the worker all the information they need, you will make a great impression and become someone they are eager to meet in person.

Send the perfect booking request 

Once an escort has accepted your booking request, the job is only half done. Next, you will have to go through a screening process.Why screening? Well, our safety is our number one priority - and that means we have to confirm your identity and take whatever steps we deem necessary to ensure you are safe and reliable. If you give off the wrong vibes or refuse to follow our booking instructions, we will refuse to see you.Each escort has different requirements, but some common requests include your mobile phone number, and/or a deposit (prepayment of part of your booking fee). To guarantee your booking, you will need to do this quickly.There is no room for negotiation here. If there is anything you cannot provide or do not feel comfortable disclosing, you will need to consult another worker who does not require these items. Please remember that we also want to protect your privacy, as regular customers are our income. We will keep your personal information confidential, as long as you treat us with respect.

Follow the escort's methods 

Now it's time to meet your Escort in person! After all this preparation, make sure you are dressed for success.This may seem obvious, but sex is about getting close to someone, and your escort will not want to get close to you if you smell bad. Arriving in clothes that smell of cigarette smoke or having a body odour problem at the end of the day will usually result in poor service from your escort.So make sure you have washed thoroughly with soap before your session - paying particular attention to your armpits, buttocks and under your foreskin (if you have one). Use deodorant, shave and trim your nails. It's also worth preparing a 'first date' outfit - imagine going on a regular date with someone you want to impress, and dress accordingly. Making an effort on your hygiene and appearance shows that you respect your worker.

Take care of your hygiene and appearance

Our next tip is a question of timing: I recommend that you arrive exactly on time. Not early, not late.If you arrive late to your session, your escort may worry that you won't show up, and that means you'll start your appointment on the wrong foot. You will also lose valuable minutes of your appointment. If your escort has other clients afterwards, they may not be able to give you extra time to catch up.Arriving early is also a problem. Your companion may be getting ready, or may still be with another client! And standing around in the street or hotel lobby is not discreet. So work out exactly how long it will take you to get to your destination, then leave a little early... but wait in your car, in the neighbourhood or in a nearby café, so you arrive exactly on time.

Arrive on time

Immediate payment' is the golden rule of sex work. But what does that mean when it's your first date with an escort?It is true that nothing sexy can happen until your escort has collected the fee and checked that it is correct. So this is the very first thing you need to take care of when you arrive (or maybe the second, right after you say "hello"). If you don't do this right away, you will start to make your escort anxious, as he/she will try to find a way to make you pay without being rude.This means handing over the money to your partner immediately, preferably in an envelope.Once the payment is made, you can both relax and enjoy your time together.

Pay immediately, and do it the right way

Many clients think that a good sex session is about getting as much action as possible, but a wise client knows that you need to pace yourself.It may be tempting to try to be sexy right away, or to avoid cumming as long as possible... or you may have a list of positions you'd like to try. But sex doesn't really work like that. We all need to warm up, figure out what we want to do together, and pace ourselves so we don't end up disappointed. Your escort knows this, and will guide you from one activity to the next.Once you have arrived and paid the agreed fee, take a deep breath and relax. Ask us how we are doing, or how our week is going so far. If you have time, share a cup of tea or glass of wine and take time to connect. And let your escort initiate the sexy stuff! Once you're getting intimate, don't rush - take time to find out what works for you and check with your partner that he or she is having fun too.This doesn't mean you can't ask for what you want... but stay focused on what works for you in the moment. If you keep referring to a "to do list" or wondering if you are getting your money's worth, you won't be able to have fun.

Let your escort set the pace

If your companion says no to something, you should respect his or her wishes.The principle "the customer is always right" does not apply here. Consensual sex is about two people deciding what they want to do together. And just like you, your escort will have likes and dislikes in the bedroom. If you don't respect their wishes, your booking will end badly. In the best case, you will be asked to leave. In the worst case, you could be accused of sexual assault.If your employee says "stop", you should stop. If you hear a "no", say "thank you for telling me" and suggest another activity. Also respect a "gently" or "softer". It's not just about stopping when asked, but also about making your partner feel comfortable.Of course, you also have the same rights. You can take a break or stop if something doesn't feel right, and ask your escort to avoid anything you don't like. Don't be afraid to let us know - it's our job to make sure you feel safe, just as it's your job to respect our boundaries.

Always respect a "no"

Following on from tip number five, here's something to think about as your session draws to a close: it's important to be ready to leave exactly on time.As sex workers, our time is precious. We may have other bookings after yours and can't afford to be late. As I mentioned earlier, some clients are determined to get as much "action" out of their sessions as possible and insist on having sex until the last bell. But this is very disrespectful of your partner and her time. It can take 10-15 minutes to relax and get ready to leave, and you need to plan for this when you book... or you might not be invited back.When your escort tells you that your time is almost up, it means you need to stop the sexy stuff, maybe take a shower, and get your things together to get ready to leave. Don't spend hours in the shower or standing at the door chatting! If you overstay your welcome, your worker will be less enthusiastic about seeing you again.

When your time is up, your time is up

Now that you know the essential rules, you'll be able to navigate through your first booking with style and class, making the whole experience fun and relaxing for you and your escort. By doing all of these things, you'll be able to prove that you're a wonderful customer and get down to business: having an amazing time together.

Knowing the rules will make you the best customer

Guide of your first date with an escort 

You are exceptional, you are in control of what you choose to do with your body, and it feels fantastic. Let's preserve that feeling and not let other factors get in the way of that sense of empowerment. Sure, you may have explored and experienced a lot before becoming a sex worker, so you already have an idea of some of your boundaries, but there may be many inquiries that you have never encountered before and will need to research. What do you do ? Try it out and accept the payment, or decline something you don't understand and overlook the string of acronyms you can barely relate to words, let alone a service ? Fortunately, there is a better way to go about it, so let's take a look at setting those boundaries. While it may seem like a lot to consider, I'll group a few things together into categories.

Establishing your limits as a sex worker

Every sex worker is unique and different. Your personality and what you offer sets you apart. Reflect on what you feel comfortable doing with others. This may vary from client to client and even day to day. Some days, I may wake up and not feel like being a domina, but rather a girlfriend, and that's okay. We are fluid individuals, but establish a foundation of the things you enjoy doing. From there, you can branch out and discover new things to add to this list, but the core items are what bring you joy and confidence in doing. Whatever it is, you are never obligated to do anything you don't want to. This can include your clothing, access to parts of your body and physical activities.

Boundaries around services

Your time is valuable. Everyone has a limited amount of time in life, and how you allow others to use it can easily backfire on you. You've taken charge of your body, now take charge of your time - charge for your time ! Don't be swayed by those who are indecisive and can't make up their mind. Just because you don't have a 9-5 job doesn't mean you're not working by the hour. If you were to take into account the many hours spent communicating with clients, creative several online adds, taking time for some photos, or driving to meet a client, would you be satisfied with your hourly rate ?CONSIDER YOUR WORKING HOURS You get to set your own schedule. If you're working from the moment you wake up to the moment you fall asleep, and neglecting your own wellbeing in between, and not having any time to eat, consider whether you'd work for a boss that asked you to do that. BE KIND TO YOURSELF Your mental health is a significant factor to consider in the longevity of your career as a sex worker. Don't burn yourself out, as you'll end up eating into your own time in the future.

Boundaries around time

What amount of money would make you feel good about the services you offer ? What amount of money do you feel you deserve for the work you do ? The beauty of the sex industry is that you get to price yourself. Establish your own rates and raise them when you want. If people can't afford you, it's not your problem to solve. Some will not be able to afford you, and others will send a deposit without issue and will tip you on top of that. Stick to your values, and you'll attract those who respect your rates and won't haggle. It will feel terrible to feel like you can be bought. YOU HAVE THE POWER ; YOU MAKE THE RULES

Boundaries around money

Allowing yourself to be perceived as easily influenced and clients constantly pushing your limits can be detrimental to your self-worth and professional reputation. By establishing clear boundaries and communicating your values and offerings, you can attract clients who align with your vision and goals. It may be tempting to accept every offer, but it's important to remember that declining opportunities that don't align with your values can open up space for more suitable clients. Even if a long-time client requests something you're not comfortable with, you have the right to end that relationship without feeling guilty. As a sex worker, you have the power to shape your own reality and make choices about who and what you want to engage with. Interactions should leave you feeling empowered, rather than drained. Establishing boundaries allows for sustainable and fulfilling relationships with clients of your own choosing.Are you a member of the world's oldest profession with a narrative, viewpoint, information or advice to impart ? We eagerly await your contribution ! We initiated the La Compagnie sex worker blog to give a voice to the marginalized and highlight the matters that are important to you. Do you have a story to share ? So contact us at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:info@lacompagnie.ch">info@lacompagnie.ch</a>

Boundaries around clients 

Sex work and Boundaries 

Stories have the power to alter perspectives, and in a society where sex work is often stigmatized and/or criminalized, your personal narratives are crucial. As an organization led and run by sex workers, we highly value the insights and perspectives of those who work within the industry. We acknowledge that we are part of a community that is frequently subjected to violent oppression and whose voices are not often heard. On our blog, we welcome a diversity of voices from all types of workers and backgrounds who may not otherwise be given a platform.

<ul><li>Personal accounts, informative articles, reviews, and opinion pieces between 800-1500 words on all aspects of sex work.</li></ul><ul><li>Personal essays delving into the topics of sex work and identity, parenthood, race, censorship, religion, popular culture, relationships, dating, politics, stigma, and discrimination.</li></ul><ul><li>Reviews of books or films about sex work or sex workers, or those that depict sex work or sex workers.</li></ul><ul><li>Educational pieces to assist those not in the industry to be better allies to sex workers and/or for sex workers to address internalized prejudices.</li></ul><ul><li>Guides and tips for those just starting out in the industry (photography techniques, lighting, getting started with online content, etc.).</li></ul><ul><li>Opinion pieces and commentary on sex tech, laws, news, and other relevant topics.</li></ul><ul><li>Upcoming sex work events - articles promoting events must be submitted to us at least one month prior to the event date. We will prioritize these articles, but please keep in mind that we are a small team, so it may take 1-2 weeks for articles to be published once approved.</li></ul>

What we are seeking :

- Articles focused solely on self-promotion

What we are not looking for :

- We will not publish any discriminatory content. This includes content that is racist, transphobic, homophobic, whorephobic, fatphobic, or otherwise discriminatory. This also includes rate shaming and outing other workers.- Articles focused on identity must be written by someone who holds that identity. For example, an article about trans male sex workers must be written by a trans male sex worker.- Articles must not have been previously published elsewhere.- Please ensure that you are linking to or citing any source material used in yourTo be published, write to us at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:info@lacompagnie.ch">info@lacompagnie.ch</a> and tell us about your idea!

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